4. You’re realistic but have a positive attitude
Negativity breeds negativity. If you are constantly looking at the negative side of things, then there’s a good chance that you’re not going to be the type of guy any woman wants to be around for too long. You want to maintain a positive attitude. How to be a confident man? It requires keeping a positive attitude while also being realistic. You want to be optimistic about your future and events in your life but also be realistic that it will take work to achieve your goals.
5. You don’t agree on everything
You don’t have to say all the right things, you don’t always have to agree, you are allowed to have your own opinion. Just saying what she wants to hear is not only misleading, it is exhausting and you will find yourself miserable. It is OK to disagree what matters, it is more about how you react to these disagreements. You are both allowed to have your own views and sometimes you just have to let things go for that.
6. You have a good relationship with yourself
A confident man will not only be comfortable with how he looks, he will feel comfortable with the person he is. You have to have a clear understanding of your own values, beliefs, and morals if you want to attract the right woman.
7. You take responsibility for your life
You understand that the way you live your life is based on the decision you make. If you are living with you parents, take ownership of that and the real reason for it. Maybe you need to save money because you are starting your own business or maybe you just look at your parents as a free ride so you don’t have to have as many responsibilities. In either case, own up to the facts that you should be responsible for your own life.